{"id":6371,"date":"2021-06-24T09:45:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-24T07:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jimbere.org\/amayagwa\/?p=6371"},"modified":"2023-09-16T12:13:34","modified_gmt":"2023-09-16T10:13:34","slug":"sugar-daddy-bagabo-abana-burundi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jimberemag.org\/amayagwa\/sugar-daddy-bagabo-abana-burundi\/","title":{"rendered":"Sugar Daddy: ibitabanga vy\u2019abagabo \u00abbirya\u00bb abana vyoreze"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Bishima ngo bagire bafashwe naho shwi bagire \u00abbaribwe. \u00bb Iyo ni imiyabaga y\u2019abigeme ikivyiruka ihendwa n\u2019abatama biyambitse ishusho y\u2019ubuvyeyi ngo bagire babafashe, babarihire inzu, ishure, babagaburire, naho bifitiye intumbero yo kubonona. Babita aba \u00absugar daddy\u00bb. Bavyeyi mwavyaye mugaheka, birababaje! Njebarikanuye yarengewe<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abigeme bamwebamwe ubuzima burabacanga, ibigabo vy\u2019ibitabanga bikavyikikamwo mu guhumbisha abana bangana n\u2019ababo. Aba bana b\u2019abigeme kenshi bafatirwa mu bukene. <br>Bino bitama bikabemerera kubabera nk\u2019abavyeyi mu kubaronsa ikintu cose bashaka: kubarihira inzu, amafaranga y\u2019ishure, kubagurira impuzu, ivyo barya, kubasohokana, kubaha amahera yo gutembera iyo bashaka, n\u2019ibindi. Ivyo vyose rero ngo ntivyijana, ahubwo birangira babaye nk\u2019abahabara babo kuko baca batangura kuza bararyamana uko bashatse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sinzi ko umaze kubibona nawe aho uherereye. Ariko nimba utarabibona niwihe ishusho y\u2019umuvyeyi avyiruye inkumi. Hama uyo muvyeyi akirirwa ariruka mu twana tw\u2019abigeme tungana n\u2019abana biwe. Nta nkeka ndazi ko womushengenza umubonanye n\u2019abana bawe. Ivyo bigwiriye cane mu bisagara. Aho utwana tw\u2019utwigeme tukiri duto usanga twipangiye inzu, kumbure twaje kubera imvo y\u2019amashure. <br>Kubera ko ubuzima bwo mu bisagara rimwe na rimwe buducanga, hari igihe tubura uko tubigenza tukemera \u00abkuribwa\u00bb kugira dufashwe. Ni hamwe uzumva hakoreshwa ijambo ngo: <em>\u00abKurya umwana\u00bb.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>None koko ga bagabo, bavyeyi, karashize ingani \u00ab\u00a0twice\u00a0\u00bb abana tworeze? Ubwo ntidutinya ko ivyo dukora bobikorera abacu ? Erega igitangaje, aba \u00ab\u00a0sugar daddy\u00a0\u00bb barenga ibigo kuko basanzwe bubatse. Bahenda cane utwana tukiri duto, tugisonga amabere ngo ni two tuba tutarononekara, bagahitamwo kutwonona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hari utwo banduza indwara zifatira mu bihimba vy\u2019irondoka, utwo batera inda tugaca dutabwa, utwo bonona baduhimvye bagata nk\u2019anuka maze ubuzima bwatwo bugafutana, bukicirwa kazoza katwo \u2026 birateye agahinda. Ehe twikebuke, turere twoye guhemuka. <br>Tuvavanure na ya migani ya kera igira ngo: <em>\u00ab umwana atari uwawe usimbagiza ugeramwo. \u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ngo biramaze gucika nk\u2019ingeso \u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ehe raba, naganiriye n\u2019umwigeme umwe, Kaneza*(izina ryahinduwe) w\u2019imyaka 22, aba mu gisagara ca Bujumbura. Uyu yanshingiye intahe ambwira ko nawe yahatswe kuja muri iyo nzira yo kurihirwa n\u2019umugabo angana na se, iyo atahakurwa nuko yari yifitiye umuhungu bumvikana. Agira ati: <em>\u00ab Narigeze kuba ndi mu rubanza ndiko ndasereva. Hari umutama yaguma andaba. Nsohotse yaciye aza ansaba inomero za terefone. Ndazimuha. Kuva ubwo, yagumye andondera ambwira ko ashaka kumfasha ico shaka cose. Erega narishimye. Mbonye atanguye kumbwira ko tuzoca tuza turaryamana, hama nawe akampa ico ndamusavye, naciye nanka kuko nari nifitiye umuhungu twari dufise imigambi yo kwubakana. \u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-wp-embed is-provider-jimbere wp-block-embed-jimbere\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"1wnV0OXaTu\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jimberemag.org\/amayagwa\/agateka-abana-gusegereza-unicef-africanchildday-fenadeb\/\">Agateka k&rsquo;abana : \u00abUgusegerereza twifashijije abana, si vyo twari twipfuza, n\u2019ubuzima bwanse\u00bb<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"\u00ab\u00a0Agateka k&rsquo;abana : \u00abUgusegerereza twifashijije abana, si vyo twari twipfuza, n\u2019ubuzima bwanse\u00bb\u00a0\u00bb &#8212; Jimbere\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jimberemag.org\/amayagwa\/agateka-abana-gusegereza-unicef-africanchildday-fenadeb\/embed\/#?secret=QoBDLq8zrd#?secret=1wnV0OXaTu\" data-secret=\"1wnV0OXaTu\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ariko kandi uyo mwigeme avuga ko hari n\u2019abakobwa bemera guhemuka ku bahungu bakundanye, bitwaje ko abo bahungu batabaha ivyo bakeneye vyose. Canke bakemera kuryamana n\u2019abagabo ariko kandi bafise n\u2019abo bakunda ku ruhande. Iyo ngo ni ingeso. Bagendana n\u2019abo bakundana, ariko bakaribwa n\u2019abatama bariha inzu, \u201cRation\u201d, n\u2019ibindi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Erega burya uko uyaga n\u2019abantu ni ko umenya vyinshi. Burya ngo abo bagabo bisuka muri vyo, akenshi ngo usanga ari muri bamwe batabanye neza n\u2019abagore babo. Ngo ni bamwe bacana inyuma (barenga ibigo). Ugasanga mbere ngo n\u2019abagore babo ni aba \u201csugar mamy\u201d.<br>Canke ugasanga, ni abagabo bapfakaye bakuze bakihebera kurera abana bavyaye badatoye abandi bagore, ariko bagahitamwo kuza bararya utwana tw\u2019abandi. Mugabo kandi ngo hari n\u2019ababigirira ingeso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mu vyukuri, iyo ni ngeso mbi. Baba abo bakobwa canke abo batama bonona abo boreze, bokwikebuka. Bakibuka ko ingaruka ari nyishi ku buzima bwabo. Hama, abantu bose ata n\u2019umwe avuyemwo, tukavira hasi rimwe, tugashengeza uwo wese twomenya ahumbisha abana bakiri bato, babahendesha ibintu. Mbere bishobotse bagafatwa kandi bagahanwa kuko bititura akaranga k\u2019ubuvyeyi ko kurera abana mu ndero y\u2019ikirundi. Uwumva niyumve <em>zirisha mutumba ziraririye Muhanuka, <\/em>mbaye nk\u2019ababakurambere.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bishima ngo bagire bafashwe naho shwi bagire \u00abbaribwe. \u00bb Iyo ni imiyabaga y\u2019abigeme ikivyiruka ihendwa n\u2019abatama biyambitse ishusho y\u2019ubuvyeyi ngo bagire babafashe, babarihire inzu, ishure, babagaburire, naho bifitiye intumbero yo kubonona. Babita aba \u00absugar daddy\u00bb. Bavyeyi mwavyaye mugaheka, birababaje! Njebarikanuye yarengewe Abigeme bamwebamwe ubuzima burabacanga, ibigabo vy\u2019ibitabanga bikavyikikamwo mu guhumbisha abana bangana n\u2019ababo. 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